Truism 1: Been ‘in love’ is a chemical imbalance of the brain. A brain in love does not function properly. Any decision made by person in love is a non-logical counter-productive decision.
Truism 2: Love is just a name for the impulses to perpetuate our DNA. Romantic love is just lust masked in niceties. Love it is just an excuse to have sex. Hormones, pheromones, dopamine, etc., are the determinant factor in the desire/inclination toward a sexual relation.
Truism 3: Sex is just a power relation for control. The first to succumb to the advances/desires of the other has lost control. The first to reach orgasm has lost all its power over the other.
Truism 4: Males are visual beasts, they will love what they like to see. Females are sound based animals, they fall in love for what they like to listen.
Truism 5: A relationship between persons is a mutual beneficial arrangement. Truthful love is matter of the logical mind. Lasting love is based in mutual respect. Where there is no respect, there cannot be any love.
Truism 6: Self love is the greatest kind of love. This is the basis of any other love. First you must learn to love yourself before you can love others. Without loving oneself you cannot learn to love others.
Truism 7: Truthful love can only exist between equals. A person that says ‘I love you’, despite your faults’, does not love you, they just pity you. Keep away from them.
Truism 8: Truthful love is not an instrument of blackmail. Real love does not require sacrifices.